 What does that mean to you, exactly? "Be a man" or "Man up"? Get tough? Deal with it? Were you told this as a child, or worse, as an adult? Men, this blog is for you. The illusion is over. The rules in the "game of life" have been changed. There's no need to act tough, save the day, be stoic, or hide your feelings. We need you. Women, children, pets, the world, needs you. We need you to act with integrity. We need you to be authentic. We need you to say what your heart wants and, most importantly, for you to act on what your heart wants. When we ignore our hearts (ie: our soul's navigation) we create The Gap. The Gap between our true selves and our physical selves. And in The Gap is frustration, anger, impatience, self-loathing, fear, sadness. When we don't realize why we carry these feelings, we lash out and act out of integrity. We escape: Alcohol, drugs, food, obsessive exercise, infidelity. Please, notice the signs. Notice how you are feeling physically: Pain? Exhaustion? Anxiety? Insomnia? Illness? Living in integrity means listening to your heart and following it, no matter what that looks like. The world doesn't need you to be tough or brave or stoic or "A Man." The world needs you to be your authentic self. Please contact me if you need help locating YOU. Live in love, Carrie 610-419-4979 PS: If you are saying these words to your sons, please stop. I see the damage that they cause- so much damage that it's become my life's work...
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 I woke up with these lyrics playing in my head, and now you probably have them, too! Sorry for the earworm. But I need them to illustrate a dream I had last night.
In this dream, I was alone in an apartment building. I knew that everyone was dead, except for a few random people (fortunately, it was not a gory dream). I knew that I had been given a choice: to commit suicide or to wait until the air "changed." Not sure if the oxygen was going to disappear or some toxic fume would arrive, but nonetheless, I was going to be unable to breathe. I knew that everyone was gone because they chose the suicide route. As I pondered this, clarity arrived. I knew in my heart that it was a lie. The air wasn't going to change, I wasn't going to die. That everyone "left" because they believed the myth and became afraid and followed what they were told. I made it my mission in my dream to find the rest of the living people to fill them in on the "secret" I now knew. I know that this dream was not a coincidence; that it illustrates my mission here on Earth: to awaken people from the illusion, from the "game of life." Despite what you hear, despite what you may feel from society, the world is NOT coming to an end. But the end of your fear is right around the corner, if you believe:
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 This is the final installment in a five-part series this week about the topics that motivate my clients to see me, the topics that weigh heaviest on their hearts and prevent them from living life to its fullest. It is my hope that just one nugget of my truth resonates with your soul and brings you comfort...
About Religion... Truth #1: Religion does not equal spirituality. Religion is a "particular system of faith and worship." Just because one partakes in this particular system does not mean they are spiritual. Spirituality is the "the quality of being concerned with the human spirit or soul." We all know plenty of people that are religious but lack spirituality. By the same token, it is quite possible to be spiritual without participating in religion. Honor those who are concerned with the human spirit or soul, even though they may not participate in a religion. They are moving humanity forward! Truth #2: Don't necessarily abandon religion. If your religious practice grows your spirituality, then by all means, participate! Take what you love about religion and leave behind what you don't love. In either case, don't carry guilt about what society has deemed "right or wrong" regarding religious practices. It only matters what is in your heart. Remember, that is your soul's GPS system and guilt dulls the communication line. Truth #3: Religious doctrine that promotes fear (like the threat of "hell") was designed to keep society in line. There is no room left in our world for fear. We have enough fear circulating in the media, politics, medicine and government that continuing to promote fear in religion is simply archaic and unnecessary. Find the joy in your spirituality! That's where we are headed in this new age of enlightenment. Just like this transparent butterfly, see religion's transparency and use it to your advantage. Grow your spirituality! It is my hope that these truths lighten the burden you feel so that you can allow your light to shine upon those who need it most here on Earth. Please contact me if you need help connecting with your spirituality, it's my passion and expertise: 610-419-4979. Live in Love, Carrie  Does family sometimes make you feel as if you're hanging upside down, holding on for dear life?
This is the fourth in a five-part series this week about the topics that motivate my clients to see me, the topics that weigh heaviest on their hearts and prevent them from living life to its fullest. It is my hope that just one nugget of my truth resonates with your soul and brings you comfort... About Family... Truth #1: Our souls (and our families' souls) knew exactly what they were doing when you all contracted to be born together. The conversation went something like this: "OK dear, so this may be a bit of a bumpy ride. I'm going to go through x, y, z and your dad is going to react like x, y, z and then we're all going to do x, y, z..." and your response was: "Yay! That's sounds like an adventure that will help me declare who I am and what I love. I'm IN!" And so it began. Honor the choices and journeys that your family members choose to experience, just like you'd want them to honor your choices. It's their play, let them live it as their souls see fit. Truth #2: We carry the most guilt, regret and remorse around family members, burdening our hearts and blocking the direct communication of our soul's GPS. Listen to your heart. If you feel compelled to say something or act a certain way, then do so, without guilt or remorse. You cannot be responsible for the reaction of your loved one, nor can your happiness be dependent upon their reaction. For example, many children come from divorced homes. They have a choice: to accept it or to be bitter. The parents' divorce didn't choose the particular reaction, they chose the reaction. Choose wisely as it sets the foundation for your emotional happiness. Truth #3: Just because we are born into a set of souls doesn't mean that they are mutually beneficial for each other in this lifetime. They may simply be there to show you who you are and what you love (or what you don't love, as the case may be). Their greatest gift to you may have been the gift of life. If so, honor that without bitterness or remorse because again, these reactions set the stage for your emotional happiness. These truths are not designed to make light of the fact that family challenges exist. But it is my hope that these truths lighten the burden you feel so that you can allow your light to shine upon those who need it most here on Earth. Please contact me if you need help lifting this burden: 610-419-4979. Until tomorrow, Live in Love, Carrie Tomorrow's final installment in the series will be: Chaos to Calm: About Religion...  This is the third in a five-part series this week about the topics that motivate my clients to see me, the topics that weigh heaviest on their hearts and prevent them from living life to its fullest. It is my hope that just one nugget of my truth resonates with your soul and brings you comfort...
About Pets: Truth #1: Pets are pure love energy. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand that, true? If you've ever experience having a pet, there was probably a measure of unconditional love attached to it. And therein lies our dilemma: WE are rarely pure love energy. We get involved and attached to the lower vibrating energies of the game of life and often miss what our pets are trying to teach us. (As I write this, my darling cat Binx is standing on the keyboard desperately trying to get me to notice her instead of working, butting her head against mine and shoving her wet nose against my face). Notice and accept their unconditional love! Truth #2: Pets take on our burdens. They exist to assist us in reaching that pure love energy, and when we don't succeed, they are more than willing to take on those lower emotions for us. Therefore, they often become a reflection of who we are. Who do you want them to become? Truth #3: Don't carry guilt, remorse and regret about their deaths, especially if you "decided" to put them down. Just like with our human loved ones, your soul is not powerful enough to cause the "death" of a pet's soul without its permission. If you weren't supposed to put them down, then you wouldn't have (or the suggestion to do so wouldn't have been made). All of our souls are directly linked and are part of God. They know EVERYTHING! The soul of your pet knew exactly what it was doing to declare who they are and what they love, and I can bet that their life and death has helped YOU to fully declare who you are and what you love as well. Honor them, and you, for being part of the plan they chose for their life and death. These truths are not designed to make light of the fact that grief exists and that we dearly miss the human connection with our pets. But it is my hope that these truths lighten the burden you feel so that you can allow your light to shine upon those who need it most here on Earth. Please contact Sheri Quintana if you need help understanding the connection with your pet. She is our resident Pet/Human Connections Specialist at the Center: 610-653-9732. Until tomorrow, Live in Love, Carrie Tomorrow's installment in the series will be: Chaos to Calm: About Family...
About Depression...
Truth #1: Our souls know exactly what will bring us joy on our journey, exactly what the "easy button" is. It constantly gives us nudges along the way through our heart and gut feelings. The "games of life:" careers, homes, cars, relationships, are all tools designed to help us declare who we are and what we love. Problem is, we get so caught up in these games (I call them the illusions) that we forget how to hear our souls and we miss the directional cues. Truth #2: Our soul is comprised of the highest vibration known: LOVE. Think of it as soaring high above and around our human bodies. Then picture our bodies lower down, swimming in the muck of the illusions: the crabby boss, the difficult relationships, the ballooning mortgage payment...whatever it is. Then in between that high-flying soul and the muck of a body there forms a space (I've given it a name, "The Gap"). The Gap must be filled with something (because everything is energy) and so we fill it with lower-vibrating things like anger, frustration, anxiety, impatience~ all leading to what we have labeled depression. Depression is simply depressing the love vibration into a lower vibrating, less comfortable feeling. Truth #3: Closing "The Gap" is the fastest way to kick anger, frustration, anxiety out of the space, lessening depression. Can it really be that easy? I mean, people suffer from depression for years, right? Well, it's a three-step process: the first step is recognizing the absence of love, joy and power; the second is physically lifting the lower-vibrating energy through energy work (what I do); and the third step is the homework: in part, finding love and joy in every little thing around us. What we focus on is what comes back to us tenfold (The Law of Attraction). The universe can't tell the difference between love of a cheeseburger and love of a person, it's all LOVE, so declare what you love in every moment of the day: "I love that color!" "I love that first robin!" "I love that he opened the door for me!" These truths are not designed to make light of the fact that depression exists. But it is my hope that these truths lighten the burden you feel so that you can allow your light to shine upon those who need it most here on Earth. Just like the butterfly above, it is possible to transcend the outside image and allow the inner beauty to shine... Please contact me if you need help lifting this burden: 610-419-4979. Until tomorrow, Live in Love, Carrie Tomorrow's installment of the series will be: Chaos to Calm: About Pets...  This begins a five-part series this week about the topics that motivate my clients to see me, the topics that weigh heaviest on their hearts and prevent them from living life to its fullest. It is my hope that just one nugget of my truth resonates with your soul and brings you comfort...
About death: Of course I was "told" to begin with the most taboo topic, the one that sparks the most anger and passion, but if you have followed how God works in my life, you won't be the least bit surprised! And so it begins. Truth #1: It is time to lift guilt, regret and remorse from the death of another. Your relationship was designed by you both to help you declare who you are and what you love. Sometimes it helps you see what you DON'T love in order to clarify what you do love. If you were supposed to be there at their death, you would have been. If your relationship was supposed to be better, then it would have been. If you were supposed to have "done more," then you would have been shown what to do. That's the way our souls work. So however their life and death played out, it was supposed to be that way. Time to lift any guilt or regret surrounding life and death because it serves no purpose. Truth #2: When you miss someone, you truly "miss" them. Each time you state or feel that you are missing someone, you will continue to miss them. Just because we cannot see their human form right now does not mean that they are not with us in the blink of an eye. It doesn't mean that they stop sharing our joys and challenges with us. And they WILL continue to give us reassurance of their love from the other side, as long as we want and need it. Problem is, when we declare that we miss them, we miss the opportunities to see their signs and love. From this point forward, thank them for their continued love and support. Thank them for your ability to feel their loving presence. I can't tell you the number of clients who have shifted this thinking and then hear their loved one's favorite song, or find a token, or have their words spoken to them by another. The fastest way to reconnect with their pure love energy: stop "missing" them. Truth #3: My soul, his soul, her soul~ your soul, is not powerful enough to cause the "death" of another soul without its permission. All of our souls are directly linked, and are part of God. They know EVERYTHING! Particularly how we are going to declare who we are and what we love in this lifetime. We are all divinely connected and choreograph this dance on Earth together. The soul of the human you lost knew exactly what it was doing to declare who they are and what they love, and I can bet that their life and death has helped YOU to fully declare who you are and what you love as well. Honor them and the plan they chose for their life and death. These truths are not designed to make light of the fact that grief exists and that we dearly miss our human communication with them. But it is my hope that these truths lighten the burden you feel so that you can allow your light to shine upon those who need it most here on Earth. Please contact me if you need help lifting this burden: 610-419-4979. Until tomorrow, Live in Love, Carrie The second installment of the series will be: Chaos to Calm: About Depression... |
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